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How does one succeed in life?

11.06.2025 06:48

How does one succeed in life?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Ask yourself:

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Procrastinates a lot.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Why do I feel bad when I see white girls dating black guys, am I racist?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

My wife has a bunch of really attractive friends, and she expects me to never say anything to her about how beautiful they are. Does this seem fair? I love my wife, and just commenting shouldn’t hurt anything, right?

That's it for today.

Does not procrastinate.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Do you want to have an XXX chat?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

If you cloned 12 Michael Jordan's and 12 LeBron James' and had Team Jordan vs. James, which team would win the most games?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Hangs out with loser friends.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Making more friends is a goal.

What is the rudest/meanest thing a family member has said to you?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

What I need from you?

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.